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Reading the referers of this website, I found that someone reached it querying a search engine for

How to find Nick Drake’s grave

Who do you really hope to find there?
He is not there anymore nor will you find yourself by the gravestone. I always try to remember what Marcus Aurelius wrote:

Nothing should be done without a reason.

I’ve visited the graves of my friends but just once each: I believe that this rule is mainly true for the people that, still present in my mind, I’ve never ever met.